This Sibling Rivalry Pupil Leaflet leaflet helps children understand sibling rivalry in a clear, relatable way. It recognises that while siblings can have fun together, they can also experience disagreements, frustration, and strong emotions.
The leaflet begins by explaining what sibling rivalry is, helping children see that arguments, competition, and irritation are a normal part of family life. It reassures pupils that these experiences are common and do not mean something is wrong with their relationships.
It then explores why sibling disagreements happen, including wanting attention, feeling that things are unfair, differences in age or interests, and finding it difficult to manage strong emotions. This helps children understand that arguments are often linked to feelings rather than just the situation itself.
Practical strategies are included to help children manage conflict more positively. These include using calm communication, taking turns, stepping away when needed, and asking for help from a trusted adult. The leaflet also highlights the importance of repairing relationships after arguments, showing children that things can be made better.
The final section focuses on building more positive sibling relationships over time. It encourages small, achievable actions such as noticing kind behaviour, respecting each other’s space, and finding ways to enjoy time together.
Benefits of this resource:
- Helps children understand and normalise sibling rivalry
- Builds emotional awareness and reflection skills
- Encourages empathy and understanding of others
- Supports positive communication and problem-solving
- Promotes repairing relationships after disagreements
- Reinforces small, practical ways to improve relationships
- Uses a calm, supportive and non-judgemental approach
Ideal for ELSA sessions, one-to-one support, or as a take-home leaflet, this resource provides a gentle and practical way to support children in developing healthier, more positive relationships with their siblings.
Important information:
The sibling rivalry pupil leaflet is designed to be used as part of ELSA sessions, PSHE teaching, or another supportive session. It should not simply be handed to children without guidance. These leaflets are intended as reminders for pupils to take away and to support adults working through the content with them.
It is your responsibility to decide whether the information in this leaflet is appropriate and helpful for your pupils.
Under our terms and conditions, these leaflets must not be uploaded to school websites. They are for printing and using within sessions or as a structured basis for teaching and discussion.
